What to Wear for Your Boudoir Session: A Guide to Outfits That Feel Like You

Written By Betsy Brooke .

When it comes to boudoir photography, one of the biggest questions I get is: “What should I wear?”

The answer? Wear what makes you feel confident, powerful, and beautiful. Boudoir is not about fitting into a mold—it’s about showing up as your true self, elevated.

Here’s how to pick outfits that not only photograph beautifully but also help you feel amazing in front of the camera.

Start With Color

Color matters more than you think. While pastels and soft tones might seem romantic, they can sometimes wash you out on camera. Instead, stick with:

  • Black: Always flattering, classic, and slimming. Great for lingerie or bodysuits.

  • White: Soft and sensual, perfect for bridal sessions or a clean, angelic vibe.

  • Bold jewel tones: Deep reds, emerald green, royal blue, or burgundy add richness to your photos.

  • Avoid: Beige, light yellow, or anything that blends too closely to your skin tone.

Go-To Boudoir Outfit Ideas

  • Lace or mesh bodysuit (in black or wine red)

  • Matching lingerie set (in white for bridal, black for classic, or a bold tone for drama)

  • Oversized sweater or button-down shirt (in white, grey, or black)

  • High-waisted bottoms with a bralette

  • Silk robe or kimono as a layering piece

Accessorize Thoughtfully

  • Thigh-highs or stockings

  • A pair of heels (black or nude)

  • Statement earrings or a simple necklace

  • Don’t forget your wedding veil, jacket, or meaningful props if this is for a special occasion

Remember: sexy doesn’t mean revealing. Confidence is the key to a stunning boudoir look.

Betsy Brooke .